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Loving Us to Death

Posted by joyinhome on June 3, 2010


Today a 16 year-old girl died from her injuries after being shot in the head by an unidentified male assailant. Last month Yeardley Love, a young college student, was killed by her ex-boyfriend weeks before her college graduation. About six months ago, I watched a Dateline-type show where an ex-boyfriend literally shot the face off of a 17 year-old – she survived. A little over a year ago, a childhood acquaintance if mine and her two sons were stabbed to death by her boyfriend.

Unfortunately, I could go on and on. The killer of the 16 year-old has not been identified qand they have no motive. As I told my teenage daughter this morning, I will bet that it is a current or old boyfriend or someone who wanted to be.

Violence against young women at the hands of a boyfriend, ex, husband, admirer happens frequently. Too many women, including teens, are suffering in silence. Some sadly believing that violence is a display of love.

There are social programs that are starting to recognize this problem but they are slow. The best intervention is US. Please talk to your daughters, nieces, sisters, granddaughters, friends and selves. Ensure that they/we know our worth. Talk about and show them healthy relationships. Tell them they’re beautiful, even through the teenage-girl hormones/moodiness/attitude.

Nobody should love you ’til you’re black&blue.


One Response to “Loving Us to Death”

  1. […] This post was mentioned on Twitter by BPW Foundation, Marcia G. Yerman. Marcia G. Yerman said: RT @womenmisbehavin: Don't let our girls B loved 2 death. We need 2 love ourselves & teach our girls that violence is not a sign of love. http://bit.ly/cQ3iaQ […]

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