HERvotes Blog Carnival: Save VAWA
Posted by YWM on July 19, 2012
If you have ever been beaten, kicked, punched, slapped by a partner who claims to love you, it is not difficult for you to understand why it’s mandatory to have the Violence Against Women Act. If you’ve ever had a daughter, a sister, a cousin who experienced the terrifying thought of being abused for no reason, then you understand why VAWA is necessary.
More women than you can imagine live in real fear of repeated attacks just because their partners feel nothing will be done if they abuse a woman. Some still live under that old assumption that a man is king of his household and the women therein are his property and that the law is on his side no matter what he does. We cannot allow that belief to prevail.
Like so many women, I have bruises that will never go away—some physical, some mental. For years after getting a divorce and getting away from my abuser, I looked over my shoulder believing my former spouse meant what he said when he said he would find me and he would kill me. Until the day he died, I had recurring thoughts of what he promised, and to this day, I cannot sleep without locking the door to my bedroom.
I don’t want other women to go through what I did when calling a policeman only meant you’d have him tell you, “He’ll have to practically kill you before we can do anything to him”. That’s the way it was before VAWA and generations of women were told the same or similar things. Many women did die praying for help that never came or came too late. Let’s make every effort to save VAWA and save lives. VAWA must be reauthorized. We must do all we can to make it happen.
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Tragedy in Springfield, Mass.: When VAWA and Local Domestic Violence Intersect – Mary Reardon Johnson, YWCA USA
Perpetrators Don’t Discriminate, So Why is Congress? – Maggie Fridinger, National Council of Women’s Organizations
Save Our Campuses: Pass VAWA – Dani Nispel, National Council of Women’s Organizations
Empower Women: Reauthorize VAWA Today! – Hailey Cayne, Coalition of Labor Union Women
Joining the Chorus for VAWA – Arezu Kaywanfar, National Council of Jewish Women
Pass a Final Violence Against Women Act that Includes Campus SaVe – Chelsea Feuchs, Jewish Women International
NASW Still Supports Passage of Violence Against Women Act – National Association of Social Workers
Violent Against Women Act Helps Kids Too – Martha Burk
Violence Exists. Women Exist. The Violence Against Women Act Should Too – Tessa Ross, Women’s Campaign Fund
AAUW Rallies for Inclusive VAWA – Laura Dietrich, AAUW
Violence Against Women at College? Something to Worry About – Allyson Bach, NWPC
Inadequate Legislation Empowers Abusers – Anny Bolganio, Coalition of Labor Union Women
Violence is Violence, No Matter What Gender – Samantha Aster, NWPC
Class Matters: Why VAWA Needs to Be Reauthorized – Danielle Marryshow, NWPC